Comments on: When mediation may not be right for the case http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/2010/02/08/when-mediation-may-not-be-right-for-the-case/ Putting mediation into business and business into mediation Fri, 23 Jul 2010 17:57:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Tweets that mention When mediation may not be right for the case -- Topsy.com http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/2010/02/08/when-mediation-may-not-be-right-for-the-case/comment-page-1/#comment-5372 Tweets that mention When mediation may not be right for the case -- Topsy.com Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:31:49 +0000 http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/?p=991#comment-5372 [...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Pattie Porter, Amanda Bucklow. Amanda Bucklow said: From my blog When mediation may not be right for the case http://tinyurl.com/ykkglxr [...] [...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Pattie Porter, Amanda Bucklow. Amanda Bucklow said: From my blog When mediation may not be right for the case http://tinyurl.com/ykkglxr [...]

]]> By: Amanda http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/2010/02/08/when-mediation-may-not-be-right-for-the-case/comment-page-1/#comment-5371 Amanda Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:04:31 +0000 http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/?p=991#comment-5371 Adam, thank you for taking the time to comment. I always encourage people to see a joint statement as a compelling demonstration of strength. The decision to mediate takes courage and finding an agreement is a great achievement so why not take all the benefits? Adam, thank you for taking the time to comment.

I always encourage people to see a joint statement as a compelling demonstration of strength. The decision to mediate takes courage and finding an agreement is a great achievement so why not take all the benefits?

]]> By: Adam http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/2010/02/08/when-mediation-may-not-be-right-for-the-case/comment-page-1/#comment-5370 Adam Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:14:08 +0000 http://blog.amandabucklow.co.uk/?p=991#comment-5370 Amanda: *Scribbled down a note about including public stmts as part of the negotiations, b/c clients frequently tell me that others are watching and feel that negotiating sends the wrong message - opens them up to more complaints. *Often, this strikes me as posturing from someone who does not really want to negotiate in the first place. *But, the public statement gives me something to offer to get them thinking about creative negotiating. Thanks. Amanda:

*Scribbled down a note about including public stmts as part of the negotiations, b/c clients frequently tell me that others are watching and feel that negotiating sends the wrong message – opens them up to more complaints.

*Often, this strikes me as posturing from someone who does not really want to negotiate in the first place.

*But, the public statement gives me something to offer to get them thinking about creative negotiating. Thanks.

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