I learned the power of a talking stick many years ago. It was one of the most important insights into good conversation I ever had. I have used one in mediations and I would like to use one more often – simply because it works every time. I know my colleague Alan Limbury in Australia will shout “here! here!” if he reads this. Alan has the most beautiful aboriginal talking stick which he takes with him everywhere. I have asked him to find me one just like it but I know they generally find their way to you, rather than the other way around! When the right one finds it’s way to me it might be made of cedar wood.
Here is a video of Dr Stephen Covey (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People) explaining why he thinks using a talking stick is amazing.
Hi Amanda,
OK this is like a fashion show - the costume looks outlandish but elements of it are going to end up on the High Street.
I'd be interested to hear how mediators are incorporating this idea into a mediation with counsel, solicitors, insurance executives and angry clients? What's the important element here, people feeling that they are listened to and understood - or getting people to listen to others?
Regards
Phil
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